How to become a better you with a positive attitude towards life

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Daily fun, happiness, enjoyment must be incorporated into your daily life. Watching the sunrise from the top of a mountain after a morning hike on a weekend bum may not be everyone’s idea of ​​an adrenaline rush, but if it’s what you enjoy, you should make sure you do it in your lifetime. You are unique, there is no one in the world like you and it is up to you to become yourself.

You have to feel positive and have a positive attitude to want to participate in some of these things. If you don’t, you decide it’s easier to stay in bed or laze around the house, and your attitude becomes increasingly negative about your life. I know, I have had to learn and now teach others through my attitude training.

Your life is about satisfaction and enjoyment and it is your choice to include this in your life. Perhaps it is the beach, the forest, the temple, the church, the mosque or the golf course where you experience tranquility and a sense of inner peace. You need to discover it, as well as your ideal relationship, job, finance, and lifestyle choices on your journey to becoming yourself.

When you have a goal, objective, intention or mission in life, you have a meaning or urgency in life and an ‘energy’ to achieve it. You are more motivated and enthusiastic about life.

At the beginning of each year, it’s a good idea to think about the previous year and what you didn’t accomplish. However, if you haven’t then, every time you start is the perfect time for you. If you are having difficulty achieving your goals, you need to analyze why. Here are some possible reasons.

1 Did you need to do any ‘background’ work first and were you working towards those goals?

Some big goals require a series of smaller goals (the background work) to achieve before the ‘final big goal’ is achieved. That’s great because every step is progress in the right direction. That is, to run a marathon you may have needed to lose weight and improve your diet for endurance.

2 Lost Motivation?

When you’re working toward a goal, it’s important that it be what YOU really want. If someone else wants you to run a marathon to join them, you’re less likely to be motivated. You might be feeling like you ‘should’ do it to keep them happy. However, in the process, you are making yourself unhappy. This is a common challenge with many people. In some cases, it seems easier to “go with the flow” rather than provoke a disagreement. It is not an intentional avoidance of being responsible for their own life, it is that the person lacks the skills of personal development, communication, self-esteem and knowledge of how to break the cycle, of being kind to others versus being kind. for themselves.

3 Were you afraid of losing a friend because you were changing your life?

In the process of working towards a goal, you are experiencing a change. If losing weight is your goal, people you might have had social outings with can encourage you NOT to change. He liked you ‘as you were’. When you choose to become healthier, the decision to change is your choice. However, their associates are forcing them to change. Your weekly routine may have included two visits to a local restaurant, which serves “unhealthy” food. Now you do not want to go, but visit the gym. They are alone and forced to accept your decision. Instead of being happy that you want to address your health issues, they encourage you to stay the way you are, because it suits them. So remember that when you are unique and you are learning to become yourself, it is important to learn to become yourself, which in this example is to be fit and healthy.

However, don’t be discouraged by losing a friend, new people will come into your life as you continue to make positive changes.

4 Has your goal changed?

Not achieving because you’ve changed your mind is great. You were not on track with the right target. Now you have the opportunity to refocus next year.

You want to achieve your dreams and live the life you want as soon as possible in your life. Some people seem to take a hit early in life, for others it takes longer, and some people never make it. You want to eliminate the zigzag through life to find fulfillment and happiness, you want to go straight to zero towards your dreams. For some people, it may even be discovering what their own dreams are, because they have been trapped in other people’s dreams.

If you understand your values, beliefs, or rules for your life, you will set goals that are specific to your dreams and desires. By that I mean there is a WIIFM out there for me. e.g. If a health-related goal involves losing weight and building endurance for your marathon, additional benefits you may experience may include: more vitality, looking good, feeling attractive, the opportunity to modernize your self-image, buying clothes new life, a sense of accomplishment, greater enthusiasm about life, and more energy to include new activities in life. All of these factors raise your enthusiasm levels toward achieving your goals.

Often, you have never thought about your values, so when you have set goals, they have been contradictory to who you are and what you believe. In your goal of being yourself, it is important that you take the time to assess your values ​​as the first step. Then, when you start setting your goals, each one should be aligned with your values. Failure to do so will inevitably mean the failure of your goals due to internal conflict. E.g. He wants to be healthy, but he continues to smoke. Decide what you want and overcome the challenges to achieve it. You will feel so much better about yourself and about life when you work towards your goal.

Here are ten tips to help you with your goals, intentions, or goal setting to keep your attitude positive as you create the life of your dreams.

10 Tips to achieve MAGIC in your Life

1. Take time to daydream and write or draw your goals.
2. He created his MAGIC from his right brain creative thinking (the first thing that came to mind)
3. Use your analytical left side of your brain to plan HOW to do it.
4. Understand that you will be challenged and that it is okay to ask for help.
5. Visualize the achievement of your goal.
6. Be prepared to make sacrifices and changes.
7. Take risks and enjoy life as you get it
8. Value your health, have fun, laugh and love along the way.
9. Don’t worry about the little things.
10. Pat yourself on the back and reward yourself constantly.

In your quest to be yourself, you will be challenged. The opportunity to be yourself is exciting, scary, and even daunting for some. It takes personal growth, understanding, communication and overcoming fear, courage and knowledge to align the mind, body and soul, or mental thought, physical direction and spiritual self to work together in harmony. When they do, you will find contentment, happiness, love for yourself and others, and inner peace. It’s a great way to live. You may need to attend courses, read books, ask questions, and be open to learning. Along your path will come signs as to which way to go. It is up to you and your free will to make your choice and enjoy the ride. The great thing is that you don’t need to conform to others. Here is an example.

A few months ago I enjoyed a round of golf with my partner who has a very low handicap my seventy-four year old mother who has a medium handicap and I am…a novice. I had a wonderful time, it was a beautiful walk, surrounded by beautiful trees and birds. Of the hundred or so shots I took, maybe fifteen percent went in the direction I aimed and went a reasonable distance. Throughout my game I replaced my ball on the nice turf pieces and when my ball ‘flew’ onto another fairway, instead of interrupting other people’s play I explained that I was new to the game and instead to interrupt you further, could you please turn the tables on me? They forced My mother was surprised! I’ll never be a golfer, putting the $500 putter on my partners was good (I had practiced as a kid in the hallway when we had family parties), so it was a nice moment…for me. I’m not sure my mom will play much golf with me unless she understands that this is fun for me, not a serious game. However, I will go for a walk and pull my buddies along and when I choose and when I am ready to laugh, I will play a round of golf. However…if I choose to continue with golf, the professional lessons will definitely benefit me and in that year I will include it in my goals. In the meantime, it’s a lovely environment, good exercise, fun and enjoyable, and that’s what golf means to me. Good luck with your journey to being just you.

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