Never give up on getting your ex back, if the love is still there

With all the billions of people in the world, finding true love can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. So when you find that special someone and lose them, you can feel the world crashing down around you.

Do not give up!

You can get your ex back and feel that love once again. But how can you do it? For whatever reason, he or she decided that the relationship was not right. While it may seem like it’s your fault, it’s not. It takes two people to have a relationship and both parties have the ability to make the relationship work.

The key to winning back your ex’s love is to sit down and carefully examine your relationship. What went wrong? This will be a painful process, but in order to move forward, you must examine the past.

In almost every relationship, you will find your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend telling you the same things over and over again. They can be big things, like you need to contribute more with household chores, or small things, like leaving a wet towel on the bathroom floor. When someone feels frustrated and unloved, things big and small can add up to become one giant invisible wall. Write down all the complaints your partner had and take a few minutes to think about them.

Now, think about why you fell in love with your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend. Why do you want your ex back? On a new page, write down all the things, big and small, that made your relationship special and unique. From his first kiss, to seeing a beautiful sunset, to just watching movies on the couch, all snuggled up. All the moments that make you smile, write them down. This is what you will use to get your ex back.

Many relationships end because one of the parties does not feel heard or appreciated. Maybe you were busy at work, had family problems, or something else was on your mind. Because you felt safe in your relationship, you put aside your partner’s complaints because you thought that they would always be there for you.

Since your ex may not want to talk to you, it’s time to sit down and write them an email. This letter should be no more than 500 words and should accomplish several things. You must first acknowledge that your loved one was injured and that she is likely still in pain. Discuss the key points where your relationship broke down and apologize for her role in them.

Next, talk about the top five reasons your relationship is worth saving. While you may want to continue on for pages and pages, please keep this first email short. You need to break through to your ex with this initial contact, so it needs to be powerful but not overwhelming. Forget the roses, ditch the chocolates, and certainly don’t send any singing telegrams. While these things can be nice, they are just that, things. Your words are the key to getting your ex back, so be open, trusting, and willing to work to rebuild your relationship for the future.