Expression of love in marriage

It is imperative that we understand that the lack of expression of love in marriage has led to many marriages breaking up. Life after marriage should be filled with the expression of love and intimacy which includes the following:

1. Let there be unity: Don’t just be together, be one. The union is physical; unity is a state of mind. Let there be unity of purpose, unity of direction, and unity of focus.

2. Be committed to each other: Whatever happens, commit to each other. Never think about quitting. Stay long enough in that marriage to make it a success; be faithful and be fruitful.

3. Sacrifices: Be prepared to make sacrifices for one another regardless of your individual differences. Don’t settle for what your spouse will do for you, rather, look for what you can do for him or her. Serve your spouse when it suits him or when it doesn’t suit him. Learn to sacrifice; Don’t always be on the receiving end, be the giving end.

4. Be selfless in your thinking and actions: Do everything without selfishness. Be selfless; put your spouse first in everything. Don’t say “mine” but say “bear”. Watch over the good of your partner, by all means; celebrate the existence of the other.

5. Operate in love: Let love be the foundation of everything you do. Clothe yourselves with love, speak in love and if you must get angry, get angry in love, if you must ‘fight’, fight in love, if you must misunderstand, you must end up understanding.

6. Be playful: This is where couples miss it. Most couples don’t play together, so the house is always hot and tense. Let there be fun in your marriage, play at home and never be too serious. Do you do anything to show joy, especially men shouldn’t let their egos deprive them of the pleasure of playing with their wives?

7. Let there be humor: make jokes, laugh heartily, it’s good for your health and it’s good for your marriage. Laugh at mistakes, make positive jokes about each other, light up the whole house with laughter, and make your home a place to be.

8. Be generous when touching: Touch each other; get in the habit of touching each other while talking. Cuddle up while you sleep, massage each other’s bodies, sleep on the rug or sofa with your spouse’s head in your lap. Walk the street hand in hand, rest on each other’s shoulders and make your home the best.

9. Give love by making an opportunity: Do not violate each other; Don’t just have sex, make love. Get fulfillment in your bedroom life, celebrate sex in your marriage, it’s a gift from God. Never let sex become a bone of contention in your marriage. Talk about it; Improve yourself. Learn, read books, seek advice. By all means, be a better lover in the bedroom.