How to text your way out of the friend zone and into his bed
For two decades there has been a massive increase in apps and websites, all designed to help people meet online. Text messaging has become the most popular way to communicate across the world if you think of Viber, WhatsApp, Skype, Twitter, Facebook messenger, FaceTime, Google Hangouts, etc.
Every girl you are communicating with has hundreds of messages bombarding her every day. You are competing for her very limited attention span.
If you text a woman, she can’t see or hear you and can’t tell if you’re serious or sarcastic. Therefore, it is important to exaggerate her communications to give yourself an advantage.
Being uninteresting, boring, and predictable will hurt you much more in an online world. And if you don’t create some kind of emotion in it, the message will get lost in the shuffle and so will you.
On the other hand, you can learn the inside secrets of using text messages and start attracting a girl. Subtle nuances in language will help boost women’s attraction in your direction, creating rapport and their feeling of comfort and safety when messaging you.
To win over girls in the phone game, you need to compose messages that connect with their passions.
To be a perfect text partner, you need to avoid the common mistakes you have made in your previous texting attempts. By teaching you what not to do, the path to a successful dating game is much clearer. The importance of having a texting strategy will put you leagues ahead of other guys who make mistakes and end up last in the texting game.
Your texts should do the following: ignite emotions, build interconnection, or deal with logistics. They are largely determined by what stage of the relationship you are in with the girl and how well she is responding to you. But there is a big difference between writing something “emotional” and writing something that elicits an “emotional response.”
When you learn to use text messages to constantly trigger emotions, she can become “emotionally addicted” to you. And when this happens, she will start chasing you. So arousing emotions in a woman has nothing to do with lame descriptive stories.
Some different emotional responses can be joy, disappointment, laughter, suspense, anger, confusion, anticipation, trust, fear… So the goal is to snap her out of her boredom and start thinking about you. The greater the variety of emotions that you can arouse in her, the more time she will be thinking about you.