Pulling out Valentine’s Day guess work for men
Millions of men are anxiously dreading the approach of Valentine’s Day, reluctant to buy because they have no idea what will really please their woman. Many women believe that romance ends if you tell them exactly what you want. Then she is disappointed and resentful when he doesn’t read her mind and shows up with a less than perfect last minute gift offering.
“Men are results-oriented,” explains Barbara Wright Abernathy, founder of Venus On Top Society, the social network for exploring the fun and romance of female-led relationships. “They love having a specific mission to accomplish and they feel happy and successful when they accomplish their mission.” Abernathy says that a woman should think like a queen who sends her knight on a mission. What is more romantic than that?
As more women acquire a better education and earn more than their husbands, some couples make the conscious decision that the woman is the leader in the home and the man her helper. Few women and men are aware that the female-led relationship is a viable alternative for those whose temperaments do not conform to traditional marriage roles. Venus on Top Society is there to discuss and explore this lifestyle option.
Women who want to have a happy Valentine’s Day can follow the example of the way Society members celebrate Venus Week at the top every year from February 7-13, the week before Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day. Venus on Top Society offers a free Venus On Top Week Celebration Kit, customizable gift checklist certificate, and instruction sheet, which can be downloaded at http://www.VenusOnTop.com
The Celebration Kit includes the official Venus On Top Society Gifting Checklist Certificate to print on parchment or colored paper. It has a list of suggested activities, such as a shopping trip or a foot massage, along with blanks where the woman writes her own gifts or most desired tasks. The attached instruction sheet provides helpful tips for each partner on how to use the checklist to obtain the funniest thing about Venus On Top Week.
Does completing the Gift Checklist remove the element of surprise most women want? No way. The instruction sheet suggests that the woman check three to seven options. She won’t know which one she chooses, so she will still be shocked. And you can surprise her even more by making more than one item.
By presenting his girlfriend with the Gift Checklist Certificate, a man can avoid the headache of not knowing what she wants. A smart woman sets the stage for a wonderful Valentine’s Day by making sure he knows exactly what will please her, and then showers her knight with appreciation for accomplishing his mission.